Wills big thing about adoption was he said it would feel weird to have a child that wasnt his. and honestly he felt like he would love it less because it isnt “ours” and i told him 1000 times that by adopting it IS ours and blah blah blah. he also said…
uhm excuse me? i am wanting to adopt a chinese baby because my husband is chinese. his whole family is OBVIOUSLY chinese. i am wanting to do this because it is a good fit for our life style. he has very traditional chinese parents who told us if we are going to adopt TO LOOK INTO CHINA.
if i posted ANY race of baby i was going to get hate. sorry for wanting to adopt a baby I FEEL would personally fit our family best.
"i do not know why, but ever since i was LITTLE i wanted to adopt. and from china!! lol. my aunt bought me an asain bitty baby when i was like 8 because i wanted a Chinese baby so badly."
Ya ok you’re totally not treating them like objects. Stop hiding behind your Chinese husband and reread your shit ass original post.
"Ever since I was little I wanted a chinese baby".
"Clearly I only want a chinese baby since my husband is chinese too".
These two ideas contradict one another. Stop kidding yourself. For your husband and your future kid’s sake, think deeply about your motivations.
okay do not quote clearly i only want a chinese baby because my husband is chinese too because that is not a fucking direct quote. YES i wanted an asain bitty baby? sue me i was fucking 8 years old. and i said that because its like “haha i wanted a chinese baby” and now i actually have one BECAUSE I DO HAVE A FUCKING SON WHO IS HALF CHINESE. my whole family laughs about it all the time because its like a was predicting the future. not the future as in im going to adopt, the future as in I LITERALLY HAVE MY OWN BIOLOGICAL SON WHO IS CHINESE.
and im not just wanting to adopt for shits an giggles. i do not ovulate so i can no longer have another baby of my own.
how would you feel if you had a daughter who wanted a white amaerican girl doll and she got bitched at for it? how about you go make a bitch post about all the celebrities with asain babies? or black babies? how about you get the fuck off my ass about eanting to expand my family. how about you back the fuck off because i am willing to spend $15,000 to fly my ass out to china and take in a baby that is abonded by its own mother. our family is willing to pay that money out of pocket because we want another baby of our own. so what if its your race? so what if its not mine? how about you go bitch at all those white teens wondering around dressed up in cosplay. or those kids blasting there fucking ipod to korean pop.
i just laughed at the fact i have always thought the chinese were beautiful and now i have a little chinese baby of my own. so what if i want another. if i could have my own trust me i would. i am going on my second round of fertility treatments tomorrow. and you know what, if and when i concieve my second biological chinese baby i will be sure to let you know.
Whoa, you’re willing to spend fifteen grand on a baby?!? I hope it’s worth it! And you’re willing to fly all the way to China to get it? You are an amazing white person, but we already knew that because your husband is Chinese and you have a half-Chinese baby! You’ve decided a Chinese baby best fits your lifestyle! Did I mention your Chinese husband? How bout those authentic Chinese in-laws that lots of people wouldn’t think come with a real Chinese husband! You will be so much more Chinese with that baby too.
"how would you feel if you had a daughter who wanted a white amaerican girl doll and she got bitched at for it?"
Horrible example because this actually happens to young Asian girls. And it’s depressing as fuck because it’s indicative of how white society has shamed many young girls into hating their skin colour.
I seriously hope you smarten up and realize how harmful your idolization of Chinese culture will be to a your children.
dauntless-life: What are the best fruits and vegetables to buy this season?
Here’s a monthly produce calendar. Below are other links that may be helpful. As for the month of August, here are some round ups I’ve done with in season produce: avocado, basil, garlic, roasted garlic, eggplant, okra, summer squash, apple breakfast, apple dessert, apple pie, peach and plum.
….and just sit there and wonder why they resonate with me on such a disturbingly deep and spiritual level and then it hits me. We were born on the same day. And then it’s just like… fuck I’m doomed to forever be on the same weird ass little extra terrestrial plane of emotional attachment/separation anxiety as Drake. What?? This doesn’t actually make any sense as I don’t believe in horoscopes.
You know when you need to practice speaking a language but you don’t want to speak it in front of native speakers because you’re worried they will judge you for your poor grammar skills and limited vocabulary
immigrant kids around their families tbh
canadians stop commenting on posts like you aint fuckin kill ya native population
brits stop commenting on posts like you aint colonize and enslave like 90% of the globe bc this shit is essentially your fault if you wanna be fuckin real